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Why I See A Therapist Every Week


– What’s going on, guys? I am Matthias. I am the CEO of three different startups and this channel is kind of
where you, me and my team from all these companies
kinda comes together to hopefully take an honest look at some of the mistakes
I consistently make as well as hopefully
learn from them together. It’s gonna be the most
painful experience for me but I’m on board for it. Someone is tailing me like crazy. Don’t you love that? Today it’s 10 a.m. I have a therapist appointment. I see a therapist. I am not ashamed of seeing a therapist. It’s not something I announce
generally but I don’t know, I feel like it’s
something I can talk about in a positive light. I’m sure you’re interested
in why and how it’s helping. I’ve been seeing a
therapist for I don’t know, six or seven weeks. I think it originally started because a friend of mine
referred me to this therapist. He realized that me and Amanda were, we have kind of an extreme lifestyle and sometimes an extreme lifestyle can take a toll on your mental health. What’s really awesome is
Amanda and I went together. We took some tests for couples counseling. By the way, if you’re married, no matter if you think
things are awesome or great, if you can afford it, always
try to go to couple counseling. It can’t hurt. The worst thing that can happen is that you just get closer
to your wife or husband. How bad is that? That’s not bad, that’s great. That’s fantastic. The therapist pretty
much said hey, you both, you’re both burned out. If you both stop burning out, things are gonna really pick up. I don’t think we thought things can pick up per se in our heads but I think ultimately
things can always pick up. No one has a perfect marriage. No one has a perfect relationship. You can always strive for something better and that first has to start in here. You can’t start by fixing your wife which is just purely a projection of your own inadequacies
onto her or your husband which is definitely something that I struggled with in the past is just trying to control
everything around me. Mental health is something that not a lot of people talk about. I think a lot of people think oh, you’re going to see a
therapist, you must be crazy or must have deep psychological issues. Who doesn’t? I went into this therapist not thinking I had deep
psychological issues but your boy does and it’s nothing to be
ashamed about about that. I mean, I’m a human. You’re a human. I think people who try to shame people for trying to get help
with their mental health might be the ones that
need the help the most. That’s just the general assumption, I could be entirely wrong
but makes sense, doesn’t it? I think what was really great about the experience is that
it was someone listening and I think not that I don’t have that, not that there aren’t a
bunch of people in my life that’ll do that for me but it’s a very skilled type of listening and one of the things I’ve
learned over the past six months is that listening is a wildly difficult, complicated skill set but I was just super excited the fact that hearing that confirmation that my wife and I had
a really, really strong, powerful relationship, we
just had to get more energy then we find out we are pregnant but that is a blessing,
that is a blessing. Therapy is actually something
that I really look forward to every week because every single week I just feel a little bit better than I did the previous week. It’s good stuff. Just finished my session. Just got out. About an hour long session once a week. I’m nasally ’cause your boy cries. He’s got no problem crying. I don’t cry a lot. I mean, I don’t even
think I actually teared up but you get emotional about stuff and I think that’s one of the things that’s just so important is that you allow yourself to be emotional and going through therapy really helps validate those emotions and puts them into perspective. It’s not necessarily saying
that every emotion that you feel is necessarily warranted but they’re real and so trying to discern between whether or not
that emotion is warranted and how to possibly approach it and why you’re feeling that
way, insight helps a lot. The why of why I behave a certain way isn’t necessarily what
I’m always looking for. What I’m looking for
is a fresh perspective and I think at least my
therapist specifically is very, very talented with
asking the right questions and really kind of
making my mental models, my perspective, my view on reality, kind of crumble into something that is a little bit more objective. One of the things I did
wanna talk to you guys about is something I kind of discovered
today during my session is how much this vlog
is actually helping me because it’s helping you. I’m just really excited about
the response to this vlog and how much it seems
that I’m helping you guys. It feels different and I
think I figured it out. I think I’m starting to
really feel appreciated and there are a couple
people at the office that do a good job of appreciating me but I don’t think I
feel overly appreciated in my current role. Maybe I’m not looking for it. Maybe I’m not getting it. I don’t know but I think making this vlog has really lifted my mood,
lifted my spirits as a leader to kinda realize that yeah, when I’m here and I’m making all these changes, these changes can be really tough and hard for a lot of people here and I totally appreciate that and I’m definitely not gonna be thanked for making someone’s life
seemingly more difficult even though I’m trying to do what’s right, I’m trying to do what I
believe to be the best move for the collective family but sometimes it’s great
to just get appreciated in the comments. So I just wanted to tell you guys that are leaving those comments thanking me for the stuff
that I’m doing for you. Just really appreciate that. It’s making me feel good. I still love all of the
critical feedback as well. I think that’s one of the things I’ve been really
appreciating about this too is that the kind of honesty
that I’m trying to portray is getting a lot of
honesty back from you guys and I just really am
enjoying this conversation and it feels like for
the first time in a while that I’m creating videos for the comments and not for the views and I think as far as
my mental health goes, this is actually helping me tremendously. So just wanted to say thank you. Very much appreciate you being a part of this early community and I hope this can continue
to provide the value that you’re getting out of it now. I don’t for a second wanna
say that ooh, ooh, poor me, I have such a hard life. Not what I’m saying at all. I’m just saying it feels
good to be appreciated. Well, when I started this vlog, also some of the editors
here at Hi5 Studios, Alex, Jake and Justin
went out of their way to tell me how much they
appreciated this vlog so thank you guys, I appreciate you guys. Feels good, just feels good and I’m sure that if I
don’t get appreciation from some other people, I’m sure it’s because I
don’t dish it out as much. So I’m gonna make a conscious effort to appreciate my crew a lot more. So hopefully you guys can see that and hopefully you guys can see that portrayed through here as well. The last thing I really
kinda wanna talk about is the fact that therapy, what I’m talking about
is not really accessible. It’s expensive. I’m relatively new into this area so I don’t wanna be like
hey, everyone, go to therapy and I’m sure many of the comments would be well, great for you, glad you can afford it but I can’t. I get that, I get that but that doesn’t mean there aren’t places that might offer just a
listening ear for free. I’ll include some links to those things down in the description below. I definitely am aware of that and if you have anyone in your life that might listen to you, it
won’t hurt to just ask ’em. Be like, hey, listen, can
I talk some stuff out, don’t try to solve anything
right now, just hear me out especially if you’re having problems with a specific individual. Just be like, hey, listen,
can you maybe sit down so I can tell you what I’ve been feeling and maybe you don’t say
anything till the very end. I’ll tell you when I’m done. I do want to make a note about therapy and say that this is
definitely personal leadership. To be a leader, you have
to know how to follow. To be a leader, you have
to know how to serve others and to do that, sometimes
you have to submit to others, sometimes you have to submit
to other people’s guidance and perspectives and knowledge and wisdom. Don’t assume that no one understands you and don’t assume that no
one can understand you ’cause I’m sure there’s
someone out there that might. Anyways, thanks for watching.

100 Comments

  1. Tabitha ha
    Tabitha ha April 16, 2019

    I agree, you have made me reach out to find a therapist. I have a autoimmune disease I was diagnosed two years ago sat. I have been dealing with a lot and I dont have anyone to really talk to. So thank you for coming out with this video. <3

  2. Bella The dog
    Bella The dog April 16, 2019

    Holy shat Matt you just changed my lighting on flipping life

  3. Epic_ Ghxst_.1
    Epic_ Ghxst_.1 April 16, 2019

    I don't really comment much on many channels but I love this vlog channel you do cuz even tho I'm a 14 year old I love learning as much as I can about anything and everything even businessess and how to improve in daily things and how little things in life even if it makes life difficult or makes it seem difficult in the beginning can improve it in the end and have a big impact on everyone and everything around you on a daily basis 💯❤️so thank you very much Matt your vlogs aswell as the channels you have built over the years or helped build help me aswell as others to learn on a daily basis about things that seem so simple but actually have a deeper meaning that no one notices ❤️love your channel and im a huge fan of Hi5 studios ❤️💯please keep doin vlogs like these and being you and the same for all of Hi5 studios ❤️💯

  4. logan coddens
    logan coddens April 16, 2019

    i love mathias. he is such a smart genuine and talented person who i have looked up to for awhile. its so cool he has so many great ideas and isnt afraid to admit his short comings. keep up the good work ✊

  5. Nathan Culli
    Nathan Culli April 16, 2019

    this channel is so cool and so authentic, keep it up!

  6. Rator31
    Rator31 April 17, 2019

    Thank you Thank you. Thanks for saying that

  7. emily westbrook
    emily westbrook April 17, 2019

    I love seeing the real you Matt! Keep up the great vlogs, we love them.

  8. Mindy Hanson
    Mindy Hanson April 17, 2019

    Absolutely loving these vlogs! It is so nice and refreshing to see someone in the public eye be so transparent and honest! Thank you so much for all you do!

  9. Lone Wolf0823
    Lone Wolf0823 April 17, 2019

    thanks for the one about therapy… it means a lot. it's worth it….. thanks

  10. lisha96
    lisha96 April 17, 2019

    I think I need to see a therapist. I mean, we all do, but for me, more so now cause of how much I have gone through the past year. My mum had 2 heart attacks, I went into hospital for a few days as well, but I also met someone. But, while he has shown that he likes me, he is also not ready for a relationship. Which is fine, and I understand. But my feelings for him are strong, to the point where I regularly question if I love him. He always makes me feel happy and safe. I wish that I could do the same for him, and to help him. But, it makes me sad. I also feel guilty for feeling for him so strongly because he isn't ready for anything. I sometimes wonder if what I do is because I see him as a close friend or because of how much I like him. I also don't want him to know so that he doesn't feel pressured into anything. But it feels confusing and sometimes I don't know how to feel. I don't know if what I am doing is wrong

  11. Rachel Flores
    Rachel Flores April 17, 2019

    This is such an important video. ♡

  12. Ice Games
    Ice Games April 17, 2019

    You know… ur a great person… I come home from a bad day at school and watch your videos even the old ones I just want to say thank you 😊 for everything you have done for me I love u man

  13. K9ylue
    K9ylue April 17, 2019

    This will probbly get lost in the comments but A. Thank you for this vid and B. On the topic of burn out you might want to check on Paul, connor, Sam they have strong masks but you can see there masks fracturing.. Badly and I know you look out for you're staff alot of them have said that in videos but with them 3 the is a cause for concern but again thank you for this topic

  14. Ann Picariello
    Ann Picariello April 17, 2019

    thank you for being a great romoltel you is the person I look up to, to be.

  15. Kevin Stokes
    Kevin Stokes April 17, 2019

    Mental Health. I've been at my job for almost 20 years. 2 years ago they gave a promotion to a person who just started there, I gave notice then decided to stay. Last year they gave me a promotion working with the guy I almost quit my job over. 8 months working with this man was horrific it got so bad I nearly walked out multiple times. I went to management told them I can't do it anymore I'm losing my mind. So now I'm back testing concrete and the guy got fired for drinking on the job. Was it wrong of me to laugh?

  16. Nicky s
    Nicky s April 17, 2019

    I have to go to a therapist every week and have been for 2 years and I cannot tell you how thankful I am that you posted this I have been denied jobs when I ask for a DAY OFF for therapy to keep me healthy and prevent burnout

  17. Sam Haskells
    Sam Haskells April 17, 2019

    Damn.👍😄

  18. dancingsun2
    dancingsun2 April 17, 2019

    Honestly Matt, we all appreciate you immensely, with these videos and so much more. We love you, and I'm 100% sure everyone at Hi5 appreciate you a lot too, even if it doesn't seem like it at first.

  19. Lol I am a robot
    Lol I am a robot April 17, 2019

    Matt, i doubt you will see this, but this video has helped me alot. My school made me go to a therapist at one point. Basic story: I was in a dark place and started self harm, my friend saw what was going on, she told the school, hence therapist. But it has made me feel great knowing that my favorite youtuber and a huge rolemodel in my life also went. so um thnx for this video

  20. michelle barnett
    michelle barnett April 17, 2019

    I appreciate your vlogs

  21. Emma Donahey
    Emma Donahey April 17, 2019

    I see a therapist and as soon as I told my boyfriend about it he said
    "what kind of sh*t have you seen to be going there?" and all I said was, "nothing."
    I've been more open about it to him since and it feels good to say that we aren't perfect.

  22. MeCourtZ
    MeCourtZ April 17, 2019

    Thanks for being real and talking about your growth as a leader and a person. Your openess has really made me revisit my thoughts about gowing to therapy and why it would probably truly help me. I hope you do feel better every week. Cheers to you, Matt.

  23. Riley Iverson
    Riley Iverson April 17, 2019

    Honestly Matt, you have such a way with words. You could be a motivational speaker. You are able to reach out to people in such a miraculous way. I’m so glad that you have this channel. You are so real and sincere. I may only be 14 but even the videos about OKR’s are interesting to me. I’m glad that you are who you are. You are such a inspiration to me. You and your videos have honestly changed my life and my perspective on life. I hope you make more videos like this. And maybe you can make more videos about this kind of stuff or just how you live your life in such a positive way. You deserve all that you have achieved. I really appreciate you and I hope I can be as good of a person as you when I get older. ❤️

  24. Tay Edits
    Tay Edits April 17, 2019

    This vlog is just what I needed.

  25. Noel C
    Noel C April 17, 2019

    I really wish there was less inappropriate suggestions or talk on Dope or Nope, Team Edge, & Rekt,
    Stay Cool! #DopeOrNope😎

  26. Grace Alexandrea
    Grace Alexandrea April 17, 2019

    I've been in therapy for over a year. I love her she doesn't talk down to me like other therapist have ( I've been through 3) and I was about to give up till I met her. Please don't give up with finding a therapist. It helps a lot. I am proud of you Matthias for taking an extra step for your mental health. Unfortunately a lot of people think physical health is the most important but you can't have a fit body with out a fit mind.

  27. DoodyDraws
    DoodyDraws April 17, 2019

    I was somehow privileged to go to a therapist.. But actually all he did was that he was a good listener.. So I highly recommend talking to someone u know if you're going through something
    The only thing about a therapist is that he won't be like judging u or u won't be like ashamed or feeling weird opening up to him/her u know

  28. Jon Øystein Ovesen
    Jon Øystein Ovesen April 17, 2019

    Respect to You Mathias! Love your videos and all your stuff!

  29. Nicole Zatkowski
    Nicole Zatkowski April 17, 2019

    This vlog was interesting! I will admit, it was nice to watch something that wasn't involved with the business part of these vlogs. I'm not really into business but I watch those videos anyway because I support you, and have been for a couple of years, and I also think that I can learn something out of those businesses videos (whether it be business related or not.) You are a VERY smart individual and I look up to you for that. Keep em coming, we're all here for ya! 💖👏🏻👍🏻

  30. Dre S
    Dre S April 17, 2019

    I actually love this channel it feels like your actually talking to me same with the Matthias channel unlike the other vlog channels outside of Hi5 those channels feel like they are doing it for the money not to entertain or educate

  31. Stormy Sanctuary
    Stormy Sanctuary April 17, 2019

    I’m one with mental issues too, and medical. Watching you makes me so happy and amazing. I always smile and laugh, it’s like I connect with you on a personal level. ❤️❤️

  32. Jana Eloff
    Jana Eloff April 17, 2019

    Same 🖑

  33. Owen Johnson
    Owen Johnson April 17, 2019

    Am I the only one who randomly found this channel looking for woods new channel

  34. Bee
    Bee April 17, 2019

    Talking about appreciation, I'm not a YouTuber, or a leader, or a business person but I find most of the things you talk about can be generally applied to life and living day to day.
    I too struggle with mental health and am going through therapy and medication aid.
    But watching these vids and learning things about missions and targets, which i can apply to daily living really helps and makes me feel like I can stop seeing a swarm in front of me and try to get some order through practising certain aspects you talk about.
    Loving this channel so far and it's aims can't wait to see future videos ❣

  35. Raisah Chowdhury
    Raisah Chowdhury April 17, 2019

    Thank you for making these videos it helps with lots of situations

  36. Andrew James
    Andrew James April 17, 2019

    This is so awesome. Keep being honest. I am going through a low point in my life and this channel has been helping. Idk why but thanks for The Exec

  37. Patsyyy
    Patsyyy April 17, 2019

    Oh no he's suicidal

  38. Katelynn Love
    Katelynn Love April 17, 2019

    I have a very serious mental illness that will not and cannot be erased. I've lived with it for almost my entire life and it requires constant attention and dedication otherwise it will overwhelm me. I spent most my life being overwhelmed by this simply because I didn't know. I thought it was just how my life was going to be. I thought that it was something I would just live with.

    It took four years to find out what it was after I started therapy. Therapy is absolutely amazing but I know so many people that have given up on it because that one therapist they had didn't work for them. I tried five different therapists before my last one was able to help me.

    Do not give up on finding ways to improve yourself in a healthy way. It can be hard but there's so much GOOD to come from it. I haven't had an episode in almost a year now and I'm thankful the people around me helped push me to keep trying.

  39. mini q
    mini q April 18, 2019

    I'm really glad you're comfortable enough to make a video like this and talk about this stuff, and I wanna say thank you for doing so. It's so nice to see someone I admire be open about these things, especially a man, since a lot of the men in my life still feel pressured to act like they never need help with mental health at all even when they desperately do.
    Luna and her future sibling/s are really lucky to have a dad and role model like you

  40. Rada White
    Rada White April 18, 2019

    Just wanna say thank you for shedding light on everybody’s (Human Ness) don’t thank that is a word but .. more people should be excepting and realizing that we all have some form of mental issues

  41. NatalieFloridaRose
    NatalieFloridaRose April 18, 2019

    We have always appreciated you. You are real. This vlog encompasses that. I for one love the life coaching by Mathias. 💕🙌

  42. Matthew  Hamilton
    Matthew Hamilton April 18, 2019

    This channel is great. It gives your entire hi5 audience a window into the entire studio lifestyle and really helps them connect. Because as big as every channel is. Its only as big as the audience they connect with. So Once your able to help the audience to relate the more they can relate to everyone involved. That will help with the entire company in general

  43. Sour Tea
    Sour Tea April 18, 2019

    Boyfriend: Doesn’t talk to me for .1 seconds Me: “I just don’t feel appreciated” -Matthias

  44. Alex R
    Alex R April 18, 2019

    because you are so stupid

  45. Michael Wilt
    Michael Wilt April 18, 2019

    Love this new Channel! It’s an awesome new look into Hi5 and the man behind the whole thing. Can’t wait for more content!

  46. I’m blue da ba dee da ba daa
    I’m blue da ba dee da ba daa April 18, 2019

    I really love this channel. It’s informative, interesting and also feels real. Ya know? Honest. I love that you’re encouraging people to not be afraid to go to therapy if they need it.

  47. NubNeb
    NubNeb April 18, 2019

    Hey Matt! Just wanted to say these videos have been really helpful!

    I'm currently pretty unhappy (but very grateful) with my current YouTube situation. I've been stuck in a really tight niche of children's content for the past 2 years. Pretty burnt out and I've lost the joy of it and my creativity is suffering.

    One interesting quote I just heard was: "If you're burnt out, typically it means your working 'not to lose', instead of playing to win."

    Your videos have been reminding me to take a step back and to do some evaluation.

    Thank you for your open-ness and vulnerability!

    -Ben

  48. Dilynn Trimpey
    Dilynn Trimpey April 18, 2019

    I love that you openly talk about mental health. It’s such an important thing that no one talks about. I’m constantly preaching mental health but it’s nice to see someone with your reach talk about it.

    Love you Matt!! 💕

  49. Gaurav Ramasani
    Gaurav Ramasani April 18, 2019

    My 2 year old cousin was diagnosed with autism. My aunt had gone into a depression because of that news. Thank you for providing this message. It really helped me and my family. 😂 (tears of joy)

  50. Abdullah Hamidaddin
    Abdullah Hamidaddin April 18, 2019

    Psych2go is a great YouTube channel as well

  51. It is what it is
    It is what it is April 18, 2019

    Hey Matt, thanks for being honest and open. I really like the direction of this channel. I experience similarities with being burnt out and feeling like I've been running on Empty. I've been debating for a while on whether or not I need help or if I should try to handle everything on my own. It's not working. I'm glad this video came out recently because it's an extra boost to someone like me who can relate. I'm also in the processes of finding a therapist. Congrats on thew new baby and thanks again!

  52. Erin Gainer
    Erin Gainer April 18, 2019

    I really appreciate that you’re so open about this and I love these vlogs, they’re very real and informative. I loved your daily vlogs but you did seemed to be burning out but I love that you’re blogging again and seem to be really into it

  53. Voidreacher
    Voidreacher April 18, 2019

    Thank you for making my day better Matt

  54. CatzFuhDays
    CatzFuhDays April 18, 2019

    I’ve never realized how impatient I am until I realized it’s only been two days since this video and I’ve checked every evening for a new one 😅🙃

  55. Jessica Ferrell
    Jessica Ferrell April 18, 2019

    I haven’t been to therapy since college. Thanks Matt for making me honestly want to try to find someone I can see regularly to work on my mental health and the health of my marriage

  56. Karigen Benavides
    Karigen Benavides April 19, 2019

    thank you Matthias for the Christian leadership tips and sharing with your viewers they will really help in the future.

  57. Allie F
    Allie F April 19, 2019

    I've struggled with all kinds of things since I was a little kid- it's so nice to see people talking more in depth about mental health in recent years, and I'm still a teenager XD

  58. Salapetunopotomus The Potato
    Salapetunopotomus The Potato April 19, 2019

    This is completely off-topic but I know you like Star Wars and I was wondering if you knew there was a Star Wars book of the main trilogy. (The 1st, 2nd, 3rd made, 4th, 5th, 6th in the storyline) If you haven't already read it, it's really good, do recommend.

  59. swanzeysearcher
    swanzeysearcher April 19, 2019

    I watch all your channels Matt. I run 1 branch of a multimillion dollar company just as as a manager. Im 39 yrs old and my employees are all 60 plus. Its tough being the boss of elders. I feel like im the underdog as the boss. They crack jokes etc about being old enough to be my father etc. I was brought in to be the boss for a reason…i know the game. Any advice how to lead those who feel they dont need a younger leader? Ive considered councelling myself but i feel i would be embarrased

  60. Ivelisse Vega
    Ivelisse Vega April 19, 2019

    Most of the vid was in the car lol 😂 😂😂😂😂I loved it

  61. lisa bailey
    lisa bailey April 19, 2019

    I don't often believe in signs. But honestly I'm so glad I came across this video today, especially, it's been a hard week and feeling very isolated even if I'm around people so this vlog has helped me immensely. Thank you Matt

  62. Nikki Mcquire
    Nikki Mcquire April 19, 2019

    Ive been watching your videos for a while now, starting with the Matthias channel and unboxing products, and slowly discovering the other channels and the individuals vlogs and whatnot. I dont really know what Im saying cuz I usually just watch your vids cuz they brighten my day, I know I will always belly laugh watching dope or nope or gg, but I do want to say Im happy to see you exploring you, and sharing that with us. Im getting a masters in counseling, and I appreciate you using your platform to help others know therapy isnt just for "crazies", and that the stigma is wrong. So thank you, and I look forward to where you are going from here (as well as to read that book one day)! 🙂

  63. christina
    christina April 19, 2019

    Amazing video

  64. Nemesis Zero
    Nemesis Zero April 20, 2019

    You are appreciated, thousands of people rely on videos to keep them sane, rely on them to pass time, personally I watch team edge, battle universe and dope or nope regularly, occasionally rekt and of course this channel, all of that is because of you Matt, you did it, you made those channels

  65. JoyNichole09
    JoyNichole09 April 20, 2019

    Thank you for being so transparent to use. I always learn something new from you and I feel push to introspect, adjust and grow💙

  66. Laura Barden
    Laura Barden April 21, 2019

    Much love Matt, you have so many people watching your back, we all love you dearly, and appreciate what you do, as well as everyone else in the Hi5 family. One day at a time my friend, you got this.

  67. Jeremy Korn
    Jeremy Korn April 21, 2019

    Paul is getting more views than you and more quickly. On a side note mental health is important, whether it's a therapist, a hike or a friend or a mixture of things my thighs is right….. Paul is still getting more views.

  68. TheAngieIshmael
    TheAngieIshmael April 22, 2019

    I definitely want to go to premarital counseling if I ever find the partner God has prepared for me!!
    Even if you think you know everything about marriage, you will find out so much more!

  69. Colin Bennett
    Colin Bennett April 22, 2019

    There's 2 two things I need to say. First is you gotta appreciate your people. People first. Happy people equals them doing their best work. My second thing is from a leadership event I went to. Being a leader can mean standing alone. It just comes with the territory.

  70. Nothing But Art
    Nothing But Art April 22, 2019

    On your quote about people who make fun of people who see therapist might need it the most. I disagree because those people probably don’t understand what it feels like and therefore think it’s stupid because they feel ok and think everyone feels like them. And that what you said is what people say to make them feel better about therapy because I’m going to be honest I think therapy is pretty stupid. But I don’t have any problems like some people do so I don’t understand what it would feel like.

  71. Dani Bishop
    Dani Bishop April 22, 2019

    This video made me so happy. I struggle with major anxiety, ADHD, ADD, and depression and go to a lot of therapy and it's so reassuring to see someone that I've looked up to since he started youtube and hear he goes to therapy made me so happy. Thank you matt❤

  72. HeyyitzAlyssa
    HeyyitzAlyssa April 23, 2019

    I have 5 mental disorders and the stigma around it really sucks. I’ve dealt with family, friends, and strangers saying rude things about my disorders and it hurts. I think if more people had talked about mental illness when I was a child, I would have gotten help a lot sooner. I had no idea what was wrong with me for years. In the hopes of getting someone in the comments to feel more comfortable with getting help, ill tell you my disorders. I have generalized anxiety, panic disorder, agoraphobia, depression, social anxiety.

  73. Lin M
    Lin M April 24, 2019

    I've been watching you for years. I suffered through depression. I still do. I would always go and look for you videos when I felt like I was falling. I really love this video you made. I always look forward to the videos you make. it was one of the coolest days when I was able to run into you at Trader Joe's. I hope u keep making these videos as well as others.

  74. Uncaged Music
    Uncaged Music April 25, 2019

    Thank you for all you do Matt. My sons and I have been fans since the first TE vids with just Joey and Bryan. Have always appreciated being able to watch you all as a family, when so much garbage is being put out here. Praying for you and your family. Thank you again.

  75. Nancy
    Nancy April 25, 2019

    Matt, you give great inspirational speeches and just let people know its ok to get help, to be themselves. You are a really inspirational person and as someone who watches all the different content, you and High 5 Studios produce is always giving me a laugh, always realizing its not always bad out in this world. I think you would make an amazing speaker at any event even something as large as InBound. You are a great example of someone who uses InBound Marketing methods and you might not even know it! Which means its super effective and it shows that it does with how much your channels have grown!

  76. David Schiwal
    David Schiwal April 26, 2019

    Thank you for being one of the most real people in my life sometimes I feel like I don’t really know people but you are so honest and it’s amazing

  77. StarryRainbowEyes88
    StarryRainbowEyes88 April 28, 2019

    These vlogs make me feel like Matt is a big brother/boss/etc that is giving tips and tools for life and business stuff. Feels overall more personal. I love it!

  78. Caitlyn Stone
    Caitlyn Stone April 30, 2019

    I obviously watched a cluster of these videos while doing homework as i keep commenting on a few but i wanted to add that what your doing with this channel is really inspiring and actually very interesting. This video specifically speaks to me on an emotional level and its nice to know someone like you, who seems so successful and has a good idea or plan of what their doing and still feels this same way about things. I relate to a lot of what your saying and do agree with it as well. Its also helping me think quite a lot. Due to my own life I dont talk nor even think about my experiences or worries or stuff like this a lot and dont have anyone to really talk to. My family usually pushes this kinda stuff away and ive grown accustomed to that and the relationships ive been in keep those emotions hidden away as well. So hearing you talk about this stuff encourages me a lot to at least put some more deep thought into my own life experiences and whats happening right now. what i can learn from it or do in the future for myself rather than building it up into a form of depression that makes my heart heavy. Its just really nice to hear such emotions from a person like you and know that you are not afraid to be true to who you are. I'm glad your actually talking about this stuff as well as your company advice and I can tell it does help because it lets you put it out there and people can and will tell you how inspiring and interesting it is to see you describe these emotions like i did. Keep up the good work Matt and I'm really looking forward to seeing more of these videos whenever possible, theyre extremely helpful and i hope you keep doing a lot of good things with your family and your company. Your doing a good thing and youtube could honestly use more things like this. Thank you Matthias

  79. Amanda D. Mclaurin
    Amanda D. Mclaurin May 1, 2019

    Matt, I think what you said can help some of the people I know and I'll recommend this to them and thank you for your speech, me and my daughter love your videos btw keep it up and btw can you keep us updated on yours and Amanda's pregnancy❤️❤️🚼

  80. E T
    E T May 2, 2019

    Your welcome Matt! I do have something to ask. How do you get past talking to a camera? I'm slow on caching up on you video's.. I would like to make a YouTube video and just feel entertaining on doing something lol I don't know just asking!

  81. Caitlyn O.
    Caitlyn O. May 4, 2019

    Umm can someone explain why I got a therapy pop up during this video? I’m confusion

  82. Istilllovedigimon
    Istilllovedigimon May 6, 2019

    As difficult as it may sound, you, my dude, really need to slow down. Slow down and enjoy the good things you have. Ambitions are great, they are an amazing fuel, but they can lead to a burnout. Also, WE ALL REALLY APPRECIATE YOU, NEVER FORGET THAT <3

  83. Alex Orjuela
    Alex Orjuela May 6, 2019

    Definitely you don't feel appreciated because you're the top dog, everyone around you feel like you have you shit together and you don't need that thanks or that specific good job. It's like being a mom but on a greater scale and with only half the good stuff

  84. creative universe CG
    creative universe CG May 15, 2019

    A would recommend watch Jay Shetty vid . He is a motivation speaker and he is amazing

  85. Jonathon North
    Jonathon North May 19, 2019

    Wow I really loved the information in this video. I'm actually a scout on staff for a week long leadership course coming up soon, and one of the things you mentioned at the very end of the video sounded very familiar to me. You called it personal leadership (which is completely fine it's just a name), on course we call it servant leadership. For you to gain the respect of those you're leading you have to serve them, you can't go in with the mindset that they are there to serve you. Another thing I've been hearing you mention is OKRs, or mission statements, and another sort of version of that we teach is having a Vision, A Vision is a short clear statement of where you can see yourself in the future. It doesn't include "I want to do this" or "I think I would be . . ." It's "I can clearly see myself doing blank" To break up a Vision into smaller manageable chunks we say to make goals. (We use an elephant metaphor to explain) If you want to eat an elephant, you have to eat it one bite at a time. In the same way if you want to achieve a Vision you have to complete it one goal at a time.

  86. Zach Stowe
    Zach Stowe May 29, 2019

    Thank you Matt for being genuine

  87. Bob Jimmy
    Bob Jimmy May 30, 2019

    There's nothing else that I can say other than thank you for creating this type of content and seeing the real side of you and not like the joking and silly side of you and expressing how you feel Keep it up man.

  88. Daniel Thies
    Daniel Thies June 1, 2019

    The like to dislike ratio is perfect, it’s good to see that there is such little hate

  89. Courtney Burrito
    Courtney Burrito June 8, 2019

    Hey Matt! Just wanted to say hi and thank you for this channel because it’s helping light a fire in me to make my content better and something I’m proud of. I’m also really glad this platform is helping you 🙂

  90. Joel Simpson
    Joel Simpson June 9, 2019

    Thanks for the speech on mental health

  91. John Archer
    John Archer June 14, 2019

    Hey Matt, some universities offer free therapy and counseling for students. That might be worth mentioning in an upcoming vlog.

  92. Robert Christensen
    Robert Christensen June 17, 2019

    Might I suggest you also celebrate your successes instead of just focusing on your mistakes. Balance, as always, is key

  93. Jake Dover
    Jake Dover July 2, 2019

    Your business is a family. Every time you would post a new video my mom my sister and I would watch your vids either together or separate and talk about it later. Iv been watching you since internet icon. Mom and my sister started to watch around the time team edge started. We used watching your videos as a way to bond and to relax. You do make a big impact on people that you dont know about. Mom got so exited when you had Luna and loves to see her and how big shes gotten. Iv been under different accounts but iv been here. We love how everyone's a family and the connections between you guys because it shows. As far as I can see you are doing great but then again we dont see but what you want us to see. My mom sister and I are subbed to all channels and hope you can grow more. Love you Matthew💙💙 have a lovely day

  94. Jay's Thoughts
    Jay's Thoughts July 15, 2019

    Please keep making such wonderful, inspirational and educational content. This can help so many people and I am waiting for this channel to continue to grow. Keep up the great work. You are currently my role model lol.

  95. bro
    bro July 17, 2019

    Its nice to see who people really are not how they act on youtube, cause on dope or nope and other channels, IDK who you really are and how you act, etc.

  96. averyweatherby
    averyweatherby July 20, 2019

    I need something more than just “Like” button 🙂

  97. duckman 159
    duckman 159 August 16, 2019

    This video was very inspiring for me your videos helped me out a lot with the trouble that I have in my life thank you very much

  98. Pancho Lozoya Falcon
    Pancho Lozoya Falcon August 21, 2019

    Hey Matt I know I'm a few months late to this video but I just subscribed to this channel and I absolutely believe in what you stated getting help is the hardest thing to do I'm 33 and I some times need a helping hand or just someone to talk to and my wife and I do have our moments that it gets rough but we always come to center ourselves…I have been a big fan of yours for a while…and this video but the right spots keep that love going brother…God bless.

  99. Jonathan Chrétien
    Jonathan Chrétien August 31, 2019

    Hi! Matt. I figured i would reach out through the comment because you value them much more than your email but my goal with this comment he actually to acknowledge the work, self-improvement and life value you try to communicate with this channel / train of toughs. I am my self a CEO of multiple mini company still learning and chasing so many answers. I also feel myself trying to understand the basic instincts of what make me a natural leader and drive to act this way.

    So weirdly, i would like to thank you for sharing this moment and opening this part of your life.
    I feel very similar. Deep thought
    John

  100. M. Hiroshi Sutherland
    M. Hiroshi Sutherland September 1, 2019

    Thank you sir. Not just for this video, not just for the content you help enable and create, but for showcasing what is in my mind the best that Youtube can be. While it is easy to critique Youtube for being a platform for self indulgence, you have created something more than just a Job for each of your employees, and that shines through on every video I have seen come from your studios. I only hope that your mentality and drive shine bright enough for up and coming companies and content creators to see the value in what you do. To me, it promotes a much healthier personaly relationship with Youtube, content and in a way, the world at large.

    I am someone who is not a fan of the saying "Love what you do and you will never work a day in your life" because it is to me a gross oversimplification, and this channel showcases exactly why I dislike the phrase. There will be hard days, there will be times where you have more stress than normal, or more on your plate than you may think you can handle, but the reward in doing what you love is that those days are a little easier to get through and it seems like you push for that very heavily. This channel has truly showcased that there is a balance to be found, and I hope that you have found/will find it for yourself and your team.

    Again, thank you for all that you do, and for being one of a handfull of Content Creators who I have a genuine respect for.

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